The Secret

The Secret


I promise that I am not going to talk about anything remotely related to popular books bearing the same title. For me it is natural that if you want something very much you would have a better chance of getting it. The more you want it the more thought forms you allocate in your brain to support your quest. Your utmost trust and belief is required as well as your 100% of your focus. There isn’t any room for plan B or C created by insecurity or fear. However it only provides you with a better chance; without the main ingredient you will never get there. This important component is work. Without it your wishes will remain idle thoughts with no substance to fall back on. On the other hand when you start working towards your goal the whole Universe joins in to help. There is another important issue one needs to look at which it is possibility. If at the age of 45 you decide to become a prima ballerina with 100% focus, no B plan and no C plan to weaken the project and you actually go to ballet classes 4 hours a day, it would never give you the result you hope for. Or wanting the latest Mercedes without having means to finance it, your dream will be a waste of time. With many years of hard work you might be able to save up the money depending on your work and lifestyle. My saddest example is the many hungry children at certain places on the planet. Nobody would want a piece of bread more and unfortunately the wish is not enough to feed starving nations.

I have almost forgotten my very favourite laws of attraction project, the miracle box. When one puts the wish into this box and waits for the result without lifting a finger…

It is not the kind of secret I want to talk about. My subject is the hidden essence of life. Now I am going to start somewhere hoping that I arrive to the conclusion needed for the understanding of my theory.

As I mentioned earlier, souls come down to Earth for experience and a healthy push with their evolution. Earth school is unique due to the physical body we need to “wear” here. This body is the tool we have to learn. It is interesting to observe new souls how much more difficult for them to learn the usage of the physical body. They start walking and talking at a far later stage than old souls did, for they do not have previous lives to remotely remember. Everything that is connected to the body needs to be learnt from scratch. Walking, talking, eating, drinking, digesting, breathing, thinking, feeling and all sexual activities come as an experience to the newcomers.

I need to get back to the idea that everything is interrelated and as the consequence everything follows the same structure. It is the pyramid, the 3 dimensional triangle that moves on a spiral created by the Flower of Life motion.



However it is not the Flower of Life itself. The formation of life cannot be but 4 dimensional, being always connected to the Universe simply because Earth and everything on it comes from there and goes back there. We are part of the whole and the whole is part of us. This view is a necessity when we really want to think holistically. While the Flower of Life is an extraordinary 2 dimensional symbol of multiplication, the pyramids follow the order of the numerological, mathematical and geometrical requirements.

It is also important to understand that the constant argument of the 2 poles that exists in everything provides the motion in organic and non-organic energies equally. The faster the motion the livelier the energy is. It works similarly to a relationship. We aim for harmony and when we arrive there the relationship loses its bite and livelihood. Due to the similarity in behaviour patterns it becomes a one pole state where there is no ingredients to provide the motion needed. By slowing yourself down you add to the motion changes of the Universe.

Females are totally confused where identity is concerned. It is not only about individual characteristics but a misunderstanding of the gender itself. Either society admits it or not this gender have been reduced to a physical–body–making machinery that searches for the perfect male to procreate with. They think about it as the only solution to happiness and the fulfilment of life. From a tender age females are set to fantasize about the ending of their own fairy tale that changes according to the availability and events. It is all right to have a bumpy start, it might even be healthier to put the lovers through certain trials however for females the test is the waiting they have to go through. It is an idle expectancy for the perfect male to knock on the door, get married to and live happily ever after, naturally with few offspring added to the happy nucleus. The time spent in this state is definitely wasted. The longer it becomes the sadder it would be in direct ratio with the storyline. While the expectations of the surrounding grow, the self-confidence of the female in question diminishes. She becomes the centre of unhappiness for the gender, where she is required to take the responsibility for furthering the lives of females around. The mother, who doesn’t know what to do with herself now that her children grew up, she wants grandchildren to carry on with mothering and fulfilling the secret desire of inducing certain behaviour patterns into the lives of the grandchildren she failed with her daughter. Sisters and friends are also putting the pressure on her; some for the excitement or event and others to see her in the same situation where they are.

One might say that we only follow Darwin’s evolutionary pattern, however it is an exhausted possibility finding no link between the different types of DNA.

Coming back to female behaviour patterns we can observe how it changes in the presence of a male. Regardless who the male is, a boyfriend, a lover, somebody else’s boyfriend or lover, females cannot stop looking at them as a potential male with a possibility to fulfil the requirements of the mass consciousness. A pole shift in performance appears putting emphasis only on the wild or the gently innocent side of one’s naturalistic in order to turn the head of the candidate. This false behaviour pattern causes quite a lot of trouble later on if the operation becomes successful. Keeping one side alive is very tiring and difficult however it becomes easier by time until the opposite fades into the background and totally diminishes the possibility to evolve.

I have mentioned earlier that everything and everybody has 2 poles as one would not exist without the other. Light only has meaning with dark and hot comes to life with cold. However the degree of the opposites would depend on the experience of the individual. People living in Salvador de Bahia in the Northern part of Brazil would consider +15° very cold indeed while others living in La Paz Bolivia would find the same temperature very agreeable. Nevertheless, with previous experience on the Siberian winter the same earthling in Brazil would jump to the sky with joy at the same temperature.

The opposites exist within make up the total of 100% each at every given moment. However the degree of the poles alters with the amount of experience so does the depth of emotional openness, the sharpness of the senses and with them the quality of life.

I understand that it is very contradictory to the “and lived happily ever after” for we put conditions to happiness rather than live it. As the consequence life is a chain of Catch 22 events. It is our decision to keep circulating within the chain or find the weakest link to break out and let the fresh air in.

The common requirements for females are always harsher than for males. Females should be withdrawn and without much sexual experience, on the other hand good mothers, lovers and housewives. On the top of all having a well-paid job is an advantage.

The situation is not better with the male counterpart. While the girls are fulfilling the expectations of the mothers, the boys are fulfilling the dreams of the mothers. They are pushed towards professions appealing to the mother, those she would have liked for her husband to have. Choices that makes her proud. Have you noticed that mothers are usually more proud of their sons than daughters? From day one a mother treats her son differently. She looks at him as if he was the prince on a white horse she could never have but now she has the opportunity to love and cherish. He is the male that belongs to her forever. The father would fade into the background and the relationship goes through a rocky stage and usually never recovers. It is also interesting to observe that divorcees with sons would usually end up alone due to the lack of interest while those with daughters do not give up the search easily.

The father – daughter relationship is a bit different. Since mothers give birth to daughters there is a certain bond between the 2 individuals. It usually changes with time for they both fight for the same thing. Then the father would step forward as the centre of attention.

I could go on and on about the difference between the female and the male behaviour pattern, for it mirrors the Universe therefore everything follows the same path; however I want to talk about the core of the matter, The Secret.

It is in the brain and deeply connected to sexuality. In the case of a male the sexual centre is next to the seeing centre. As you remember from previous chapters apart from seeing the eye incorporates the work of the tongue as the tool of tasting, the skin for touching, the ears of hearing and the brain as the place for thinking.

The female sexual centre is next to the hearing centre that would include the tongue as the instrument of tasting and the skin responsible for touching.

Let us look at the consequences of the difference regarding sexual behaviour. The main instruments of sexual arousal for a male are his eyes. As the degree of the 2 poles he might prefer to see everything or he is a brave hunter and would choose the hidden treasure. I do not want to elaborate on the difference between the sexual qualities of the 2 behaviour patterns – I am certain you would be able to figure it out.

As the seeing centre includes four more senses the 100% allocated for it would be divided between them: giving the eyes the biggest bulk and divide the rest between the others. The eye receives the vibration of the light reflected on the object and never the reality however vague it might be. The information received is put through a screening filter of the conscious and subconscious letting in only what is allowed by the evolutionary state of its owner. Therefore it is safe to say that the vision would only touch some aspects of the surface without allowing for depth.

In the case of a female, only two additional senses are involved. In her case the ruling centre is the ears where the sound causing sexual arousal comes through. Regardless what the male says he usually gets to the point if he is clever enough to keep talking.

There is one more and definitely vital difference between the sexual behaviour patterns of the 2 poles. While in the case of a male the roles of the additional senses are divided near equally, in the case of the female thinking grabs the largest percentage leaving taste and touch on the side road.

Without having the know-how thinking is very dangerous indeed. It only involves the conscious, the earthly experience that proves very limited when decision making involved. Thoughts can get easily entangled and support each other without proper reason behind. A female always has an idea to chew on and get deeper and deeper into it until loses herself in the details.

Today earthlings do not look at relationships as challenges but as a social necessity.

For a successful evolution both poles are needed to have the friction, the emotional fight to provide the motion life needs. Instead of getting to know the Self and Others, they set upon using manipulation and emotional blackmail in order to bring the 2 poles nearer to each other regarding behaviour patterns. This deed would never result in true changes only in oppression.

Yesterday I was teaching Akia-Khem and I sent my students up to the Thunder, we usually visit on Vodoun courses, and asked them to bring thoughts about the interrelation of the 2 poles. One of them, called I Like came back with a very exciting view. She said that the 2 genders are like the 4 sides of the obelisk. The parallel sides belong to the same gender. Let us call them male and female sides. The male and females sides never run on the same course. They follow an individual pattern however they meet on the edge and make up a straight line. When lines get crooked the system collapses. And she went on saying that the 2 genders are like water and air. Although there is air in the water and water in the air they have the boundary of the water’s surface between them. I found this description really beautiful. Thank you very much.

As you can see all this upheaval is the result of one’s relation to sex. Everything about the person shows in his/her approach to sexuality. It mirrors his/her way of thinking, approach to life and the Universe, evolutionary stage, past lives, present life, social background, education, emotional state and illnesses.    

So you see, everything revolves around sex! The whole life is sex! With the interrelation the universe is sex! It is the highest frequency energy an earthling is able to produce or come across. It is the elixir of life. I am not talking about the intercourse. I am talking about the beauty of understanding the Self, the feeling of Oneness, the wonders of Nature and being the part of it, the satisfying power of creation and the moment when one day you start feeling the everlasting arousal for Existence.



Have a wonderful Life!

Love and peace

The Secret